Wednesday, April 23, 2025
week four blog!
Sunday, April 20, 2025
Old friends
This is not the first assignment as a Psychology major where I reflect and analyze a relationship/friendship based on the stages of Knapp's model. The same old friend always comes to mind. I will call him 'K.' The stage(s) I will discuss are the latter half and more specifically what lead to the essential termination of the friendship. We went through a lot together. We were coworkers, classmates, criminals, roommates. We lied to our girlfriends for each other, co signed each other's nonsense, experienced trauma together, stayed up all night together, even escaped death. We also had a lot of fun and made a lot of great memories over at least a decade. Unfortunately it started to slow down when we became roommates after about 8 years of friendship. Most of our friendship was spent communicating via text because we lived in different states for a big chunk of it. When we moved in together as adults, I started to realize how much different we really were. I could sit here and get into details but overall I just realized our morals, values and beliefs were not aligned. I started reflecting on the trouble we got into and began setting boundaries. Eventually we both became so avoidant that we barely talked anymore. As time pass I continued to reflect on our relationship and how it was fueled on drugs, alcohol, infidelity, partying and so on. Although not official, I terminated the relationship when I declined to be the best man and witness at his wedding. The woman he married was a friend of mine and i was always there when both of them would cheat on their respective partners at the time. It isn't that I didn't support their marriage, I just needed to move on. I wish I had more time and energy to dive into this but the details can be a bit too painful. Adler, R.B., & Proctor, R.F.II. (2023) says, "When new information becomes available, perceptions of others change." The information that became available to me was what had been in front of me all along. We just were not ever aligned. It's hard to let go but it feels freeing to know that I can and I did. Sometimes I think because we spent so many years texting all day everyday that it soiled the moment when we finally moved in together. There was just nothing left for either of us to give. I love the quote below because when I look at this relationship, I see a version of myself that I have outgrown and I am happy with that.
Adler, R. B., & Proctor, R. F. II. (2023). Interplay: The process of interpersonal communication (16th ed.). Oxford University Press.
Saturday, April 12, 2025
Week two
~ Social Semiotics ~
Developed by Michal Halliday and Gunther Kress, Social Semiotics examine how signs and symbols function in our society to create and convey ...

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